Loving First, Loving Well

Loving First, Loving Well
Fifteenth Sunday in Ordinary Time,
Year C

[Dt 30:10-14. Ps 69:14, 17, 30-31, 33-34, 36, 37. Col 1:15-20. Lk 10:25-37.]

“What must I do to inherit eternal life?” The question that the scholar of the Law asks Jesus is one that the scholar thought would “test” Jesus.

Jesus asks him back, “What is written in the Law?” Remember, Jesus tells us that he has not come to abolish the Law. And so he looks to the Law. The scholar gives the correct answer according to the law of Moses: love God; love your neighbor.

But that love for God is a whole and first and immediate kind of love: whole heart, whole being, whole strength, whole mind.

It is a love that puts God first.

And in that kind of love for God, anyone can love anyone else better because he loves God first!

But then, the scholar drops what he thinks is the big bomb of the test. He asks, “Who is my neighbor?” What he means by that is, “Just who are God’s people?”

And Jesus turns the tables. Jesus answers a basic and elemental question for us about relationships. About who we are and how we are to be and act in the world.

And Jesus tells the man the story – the Parable – of the Good Samaritan.

Parables are stories that allow us to put things “side by side” so to speak. They help us to see a truth by way of example in the story.

So, we have a man going down the 23-mile long steep and dangerous road from Jerusalem to Jericho. That’s no easy trip, and the road was notoriously dangerous. Robbers used to hide and attack unsuspecting travelers.

We know nothing at all about the man who gets beat up and left for dead.

He has no specific identity. He stripped and beaten, and “half dead.” He is no particular man – and so he can be any man.

The priest and the Levite who pass the victim and do nothing probably had their reasons to avoid him. Let’s not judge them – except to see that neither one of them was a "neighbor" to the beaten man. Maybe they are so concerned with their own observance of the laws of cleanliness that they simply pass the beaten man by.  Maybe they think he is already dead! 

But look who stops and helps: a Samaritan!

To most Jews, the Samaritans were outcasts, half-breeds, and heretics. And the ill feelings were mutual.
The Samaritan was probably the last person a Jew would we would expect to stop.

But he does stop. And he binds up the victim’s wounds and takes him to an inn, stays with him overnight, and even pays for the victim’s care and offers to go further into debt for him!

It is important that we go back to the Scholar’s question: “Who is my neighbor?”

Now the answer becomes clearer. Don’t look to see if the victim is a friend or an enemy, someone close  or a total unknown. See only that it is someone who is really one of us – a sister or brother in the image of God - who needs help.

And if we love God first and best, we know His love; His compassion, and we can extend that.

I have a friend who has it in her heart to go to minister to the poor in Uganda.

She made plans, got herself connected with an ecumenical medical mission, and took off from Philadelphia for Uganda a few weeks ago on what was her second trip to Africa.

She sent us a photo of her assisting at surgery in Uganda – standing in a makeshift operating room.

This week, a Philadelphia Police Detective heard the call for help in the wake of the Duck boat accident. He ran to the pier, tossed his gun and wallet aside, and jumped in to save four of the survivors. He said, “I was just doing the same thing that anybody would have done.”

My friend is home from Africa now, and back in the routine of being a wife and mom. The police detective was back on duty the day after the accident.

And back at the parable: After all of his good work, the Samaritan is still a Samaritan; still the same outcast to the Jews, the same object of scorn.

Everything, it seems, has returned to “normal” as the world looks at it.

Yet, somewhere in Judea, a man lived once, because the most unlikely person saw him as a neighbor.

Somewhere in Africa, one woman now lives because a nameless women from America loved her enough to visit her village and assist at her surgery.

And right across the river, four people live because a cop loved enough to put his life at risk for the good of others.

And somewhere, in God’s big storehouse, where all the good deeds of the world are stored, the store has gotten a bit more full.

The world is just a little bit better.

These people have shown us how to love well. Because they have loved God first!

There is an old saying that we all have to watch out for: It is inspired by the way of the world. It says:

“No good deed goes unpunished.”

Mother Teresa has answered that. Here is something from lines that are written on the wall of her home for children in Calcutta:

     People are often unreasonable, irrational, and self-centered.
          Love them anyway.
     If you are kind, people may accuse you of selfish, ulterior motives.
          Be kind anyway.
     The good you do today, will often be forgotten.
          Do good anyway.
     Give the world the best you have, and it will never be enough.
          Give your best anyway.
     In the final analysis, it is between you and God.
     It was never between you and them anyway.

If we can do this, I think we will begin to see and to experience the love that God has for us. We might even see that God Himself in Jesus has become a good Samaritan: the stranger who took on human flesh and walked among us, and healed us, and gave us the promise of eternal life without asking first if we were friend or foe.

God bends down to us all with love.

The great lesson of today’s parable is that we can share God’s viewpoint in a love that looks beyond who people are, to see what they can become.

Moses tells us: this is not mysterious, not far away. It is “…already in your mouths and in your hearts; you have only to carry it out.”

The Jar of Precious Treasure

The Jar of Precious Treasure
Eleventh Sunday in Ordinary Time, Year C
[2 Sm 12:7-10, 13. Ps 32:1-2, 5, 7, 11. Gal 2:16, 19-21. Lk 7:36-8:3.]

Today we hear Luke’s beautiful story of the power of forgiveness and love,  and the story has actually been prepared for us today by all of the readings:

In Second Samuel, King David is brought to see his sinfulness, and when he declares that sinfulness, he is told that God has forgiven him.

The Responsorial Psalm sings of the joy of the person who confesses fault to the Lord and receives forgiveness.

And Paul tells us in the reading from Galatians of the power of faith in God – a justification that comes to the believer apart from works of the Mosaic law.

Justification that is God’s gracious gift.

All of these prepare and help us to understand something of Luke’s beautiful Gospel story.

In all four Gospels there is a story about a woman who anoints Jesus with oil. Each time someone rebukes the woman. And in all four gospels, the woman says nothing;  she never speaks back – she is an “object”—people talk about her, and they judge her.

But Luke’s report tells us more – he tells us what she accomplishes in silence – without words.

And that silence calls to us over the centuries. It yells at us: see what power there is in a pure heart – see what Jesus can do with those who come to Him in freedom.

So, what about this woman in the Gospel?  “She is a sinner,” they say. Luke's Gospel specifically calls her a “sinful woman,” and that brings to mind all kinds of speculation – what was her sin?

We are never told, but it is one of those things that invites us to “fill in the blanks,” so to speak.

Yet, it is important for us today – it is imperative for us today, not to fill in those blanks – not to judge this women beyond what Luke tells us.

We simply don’t know what she has done. But whatever that was, it was something that was known: The Pharisee who was Jesus’ host at dinner knew about it. Listen to what he says to himself:

     “If this man were a prophet, he would know who and what sort of woman this is who is touching him,
     that she is a sinner.”

And did Jesus know? I think: of course! We have so many instances in the Gospels where Jesus touches sinners young and old, rich or poor, man or woman. Jesus never hinders them from coming to Him.

Too often, I think, we hear this story and gospel stories like it, and we only think about the moment of the gospel encounter. But maybe we should wonder a few things:

Who was this woman?

What was her life like?

Who or what caused the occasion – or occasions – of sin?

Was she a victim of circumstance? A victim of her own powerlessness in a society that hardly upheld the rights and dignity of women?  Women were considered as property back then. 

Maybe….  And maybe it was just this kind of background that led the woman to think that she had to come to Jesus that night. That He would understand. That He was her last hope. 

Had this woman seen Jesus before? Perhaps… Jesus was very much in the public eye by the time of this dinner.

She could well have been in the crowd when he gave the beatitudes:
     How blessed are the poor in spirit.
     How blessed are you who are weeping…. Jesus says.

The poor, the sick, the sinner, the misunderstood and the marginalized… Jesus had turned the world upside down in favor of the lowly!

Had this woman heard these words? Had Jesus brought her hope?

Had His eyes met hers somewhere on the road? Had his glance – just a moment’s meeting of the eyes, told her:  “You don’t have to live like this.”

Had Jesus spoken heart to heart to her in silence?

We don’t know.

We do know that she wasn’t invited to the party, it is safe to say.  We don’t even know how she got into the dinner.

But something must have told her, something must have drawn her to seek out the Lord in that time and place.

And she came with gifts.

The gifts of precious treasure in that alabaster jar.

That alabaster jar – we all have one – a vessel that we use to store up our precious treasures. And I don’t mean material treasures.

I mean the treasures of hearts that beat not alone, but in relationship to all those we encounter: hearts that beat like parents; like sons and daughters, brothers and sisters, friends – and enemies.

Hearts that beat right along with those things and persons who have hurt us, and who we have hurt. With those who cause us sadness – and who we have caused sadness.

This treasure in our alabaster jars is the oil of our lives.

And now this sinful woman comes and she reaches out to Jesus.

And the weight of her sin, the weight of her sorrow, the weight of her shame – all these weigh her down.

She is so far down, that when she reaches up for Jesus, she reaches up only to His feet!

And yet she works within her reach.

And what does she offer Jesus? The gift of her tears – tears from eyes that stream the sorrow of a humble heart.

The gift of her hair – she dries his feet with her own hair.

And her costly perfumed oil – the treasure of her very life she pours out at Jesus’ feet in silence.

Jesus turns, and speaks to her. He tells her that her sin is forgiven – that her faith has saved her.

Faith – that is what has saved her!...

And now she rises and walks in the new dignity of a daughter of God.

Maybe she sang softly to herself as she went from the Psalms: “You are my shelter; from distress you will preserve me; with glad cries of freedom you will ring me round.”

But we don't know that, either.  The Gospel never tells us that. It only gives us the silence of her action.

We hear at the end of today’s Gospel that Jesus continues on His journey from one town to another, and that his disciples accompany him.

And also, the Gospel is certain to tell us that some women are with Him. Luke even names three of them:
Mary Magdeline, Joanna, and Susanna….

and, this is important for us today: “many others…”

Could this now forgiven silent woman one be one of the nameless ones in the group that travelled with Jesus? Or did she simply go in the peace that Jesus had granted her and try to make new life where she was?

We don’t know, but part of our prayer in meditating on this Gospel can be in wondering about this woman – and the life that brought her to Jesus’ feet.

The life that was transformed in her encounter. And the new life that Jesus has granted her – that gracious gift he may grant to us, too.

The Gospel today teaches us that we don’t necessarily need words…

It tells us that the treasures we have are nothing if they are not poured out in love.

It tells us that the powers and the oppressions of the world are as nothing before the mercy and love of Jesus, who loved us first.

It tells us not to be fearful, even if we are so bogged down that when we reach up to Jesus, we can only reach for His feet.

Today’s Gospel tells us to come to Him. We can bring him our faith, our sorrow, our humble contrition.

We all in need to know that we, too, can cry at the feet of Jesus.

And when we look up, we, too, can hope to see Him smiling at us and hope to hear His words – words that I am certain gave such great joy to the silent woman’s heart:

“Your faith has saved you.”

The Madonna of the Street's Empowering Gift of Peace

The Madonna of the Street's
Empowering Gift of Peace
Sixth Sunday of Easter, Year C
Mother's Day
[Acts 15:1-2, 22-29. Ps 67: 2-3, 5, 6, 8. Rev 21:10-14, 22-23. Jn 14:23-29.]

This is a powerful Gospel that we are privileged to hear today; that we are privileged to be a part of; because in the proclaimed word we are present to what happens—to what is  is going on in today's Gospel.

Jesus gives His disciples—and us—His peace.

And that’s not just any kind of peace.  No, it is the peace that is given Not as the world gives.

The world can never match the totality of Jesus’ kind of peace.

It is a special peace: it comes to us so as to not let our hearts be troubled.

What a beautiful kind of peace that is!

In His great generosity, God not only offers us this great peace; but I think He also and everywhere gives us examples of His peace—examples of what this peace must be like – a peace that is almost beyond our imaginations.  Peace of encouraging and empowering presence.

And one of those examples of Jesus' peace that he gives, I think, is found in the examples of our mothers.

Today, we celebrate Mothers Day.  Today we honor and recognize all mothers, stepmothers, adoptive mothers, grandmothers, godmothers, and all of those beautiful women who have been like mothers to us.

Some even say that the name “momma” is the first name for God on the lips of little children!

That is because mothers mirror the presence and the peace that Jesus offers!

All of us owe our very existence to our mothers. They loved us first: They loved us sight unseen even before we were born! Our mothers literally loved us into life.  We have that in common. 

We also have another thing in common, because we are all here in this Church, whether you are close by or back at the door:  we are gathered around this light - this Easter candle, which represents the light of Christ - light from the new fire at the Vigil of Easter.

This light burns every time a baptism takes place. 
Our mothers, who have loved us into life,  bring us to this Church, and they ask baptism for us.  Another birth for us through water and the Spirit.  They will our eternal good even before we're aware of it! 

Too frequently, I think, the world tells us that we should look on peace as satisfaction—sort of a "lack of being bothered"—and that’s not really peace.

No amount of satisfaction can ease our pain or console us if—or when—we are faced with  real challenges or tragedies in our lives!

In fact, the world’s peace is often an absence of someone—as if we would have peace if, maybe people would let us alone!

That kind of peace...that's not peace. 

The peace that Jesus offers us in this Gospel of today is the peace of  presence.  The peace of His presence with us to empower us.  

Think for a minute about how God uses mothers signs of empowering peace for us:

Do yo remember that story of Jesus and His mother at the wedding feast in Cana?

His mother simply says to Jesus: “They have no wine.”  And Jesus asks her how this concerns them.

We can only imagine what their eyes, their faces, their body language said to each other in that short moment.  We don’t know, of course – the Gospel doesn’t tell us all these little nuances.  But they were there. 

We must know that they were there, because you and I, no matter how young or how old we are:
we are all children!

We all know about those little subtle expressions, those communications between a mother and her child—little glances, tones of voice that mean so much to us. 

Back at Cana, we hear Mary’s statement of belief in her Son, empowerment of her Son, when she simply turns and says to the servants— “Do whatever he tells you.”

And we know what happens: That great abundance of wine, that first sign of Jesus’ messianic mission that leads to the gift of salvation and eternal life for all of us!  A miracle!  Done at the bidding of His mother. 

And somehow, at least to me, with that first sign, might be the occasion to think of Jesus and Mary, who might have even been standing together with their hands joined for all we know.  Well, maybe with this sign, their hands parted as if to take gentle leave of each other. 

Every mother knows that this kind of love and peace leads eventually to some kind of parting.

But that’s okay – because mothers’ gifts help us to walk in the world with assurance; in much the same way as our mothers encouraged us to take our first steps.  Most times those first steps were away from their open and loving arms.

They helped us to walk away from them.  Mothers love in ways and at such depths of soul that we can hardly imagine.

I have heard some amazing stories of mothers’ love over the past few days, miraculous stories about mothers.

But what we don’t usually hear about are the stories of mothers in crisis, who are at great risk.  Mothers who say "Yes" to the gift of life and decide that no matter what... no matter what kind of obstacles they face, they going to give birth to their children. 
Because they won't buy in to the culture of death. 

I know about mothers who are true Madonnas of the Street in the most holy sense.  These are women who have spent their entire day looking for a safe place to spend the night.  I have heard the story of a mother who gave birth alone in a deserted place.  The whole world, it seemed to her, had turned its back on her.  But she wouldn't turn her back on her baby. 

I know that there are people who help mothers in crisis, whose wish for the peace and welfare of their children bring them to hope against the tides of their lives.

For years, there has been an agency just a few miles from here that has been helping poor mothers with clothing, food, and medical help to assist these women to get young lives started.

And now, Good Counsel is on the verge of opening its first home in South Jersey to welcome young mothers and give them counseling and educational opportunities as well as a loving setting in which to live and nurture their babies.

In just two weeks, Good Counsel will hold its local Walk-A-Thon to raise money for their house. 

Why not make a Mothers Day resolution to join us and walk whatever distance that you like.

Walk for yourself; or walk in memory of or in honor of your own mother.

Walk for the life of a baby whose mother depends on your own empowering gift of peace.

Please, pray about this: Pray as if all depends upon God, and work as if all depends upon you.

Jesus tells us today: “Whoever loves me will keep my word, and my Father will love him, and we will come to him and make our dwelling with him.”

Let me share with you a thought about moms, from the pen of an anonymous author:

     Your mother is always with you...
     She's the whisper of the leaves
        as you walk down the street.
     She's the smell of bleach
        in your freshly laundered clothes.

     She's the cool hand on your brow
        when you're not well.

     Your mother lives inside your laughter.
     She's crystallized in every tear drop.

     She's the place you came from,
        your first home...
     She's the map you follow
        with every step that you take.

     She's your first love
        and your first heart break...
     and nothing on earth can separate you.

     Not time, Not space...
     Not even death...
        will ever separate you
     from your mother...

You carry her inside of you...

Beautiful words....

I think every child knows this, but it’s nice to hear it spoken out loud on this day.

And so, to moms everywhere, and in every time and every circumstance:

Love, and thanks from grateful children who today with Jesus in the Gospel wish you Peace.

The Right Little Thing

"The Right Little Thing"
Fifth Sunday in Lent, Year C
[Is 43:16-21. Ps 126: 1-2, 2-3, 4-5, 6. Phil 3:8-14. Jn 8:1-11.]

There was an English professor at Glassboro State College, now Rowan University, who was a real stickler for clear thinking and clear speech.
His name was Richard Mitchell, and he was one of the most incredible minds of his time.  For many years he put out a publication titled The Underground Grammarian.
He skewered his fellow professors and others for their awful linguistic gaffes – mistakes that betrayed them as people who really don’t think too clearly!

Many feared him; but near the end, he was so admired and respected even by those he took to task – that many of his colleagues took offense if he neglected to chastise them for lapses in writing and speech!

Well, to many of us, Richard Mitchell was a hero! We, who aspired to be teachers – probably most of us without having read the Letter of James chapter 3 – tried to learn from this genius.

For Richard Mitchell, today’s Gospel was a beautiful lesson in education.

We have the Scribes and Pharisees bringing a woman before Jesus who was caught in adultery. It is important that we see what is going on here.
They bring the woman before Jesus, and they tell him what Moses has prescribed in the law – death by stoning for this act!

Well, these Scribes and Pharisees are right – in a way; and they are wrong in a way!
They don’t seem to care about that, though. We hear this in the gospel: “They said this to test him – to tempt him.”

And Jesus knew, it!
Jesus knows the Law – after all, from our standpoint, we know that he is indeed God!
But the Scribes and Pharisees don’t know this.

Let’s look at what the law says about this, and the Law is actually elegant!
It says that when adultery is committed, both the adulterer and the adulteress are to be put to death.
And the stoning?
Well, that is only in the case of a betrothed maiden, not one who is fully married (Dt. 22:24).
There is another problem:
The guilt of a party is to be established on the testimony of at least two witnesses, and we have this directly from the Law:
“At the execution, the witnesses are to be the first to raise their hands against him; afterward all the people are to join in.” (Dt. 17:7).

So who here in this Gospel are the actual witnesses? No one specifically is named.

And Jesus, who has bent down to write in the dirt straightens up and gives a beautiful and elegant little sentence of direction – so unique, so evident of the law.
Here it is in all its simplicity:

“Let the one among you who is without sin be the first to throw a stone at her.”

Silence.
Jesus bends down again to write in the sand.

What he wrote is really unimportant. We are never told by the Gospel writer what this may have been.
But what is truly important is that Jesus bends down. He turns away from them.
He doesn’t gaze upon them.

Jesus bends down to give the accurers time to think about his elegant little sentence:

“Let the one among you who is without sin be the first to throw a stone at her.”

Now, do the accusers really want to take up that challenge? Do the sinful accusers really want to show that they are hypocrites and worse by taking up the first stones?

Did Jesus change the law? No. He upheld the law.

But Jesus did something so very elegant that it might pass us by here.

It didn’t pass by the attention of Richard Mitchell, the Underground Grammarian. Mitchell uses this elegant phrase of Jesus as a prime example of how a master teacher can say what Mitchell calls
“The right little thing.”

"The right little thing" – nothing changed in the law – there is no new spin on Torah here. If you want, you can check in out in the books of Deuteronomy and Leviticus.

But the “right little thing” has penetrated bone and marrow and sinew and gone both to the mind and the heart of the matter.
Jesus is teaching them to think!

And yet, we can see that the “they,” the group – doesn’t really think – there is no “groupthink” here. Individual persons think.
Each one hears the “right little thing.”
Each one begins to mind his own business.
Mitchell would tell us that each one begins to seek his own betterment.
And each one finds it.

Mother Angelica of EWTN fame has another take on this, and not with specific reference to this gospel. She has said: “Mind your own business. If you really minded your own business, you’d be surprised at how little business you really have.”

Now back to the gospel: One by one – the oldest first, the gospel tells us – each went away.
One by one, each one becomes better because of the “right little thing” said by Jesus.

Here is kind of a legalistic interpretation of what Jesus told them: If you do not have equal guilt in this case, you can begin the execution. That’s the law!

Yes, there was a conspiracy here – they were doing this to “test him.”
So there was a bit of complicity in all of them. All were guilty in this particular case in one way or another, because they don’t really have a case about adultery here without bringing both the man and the woman before Jesus.

And the one who could truly be said to be without sin – Jesus Himself – even he couldn’t participate. According to the Law, he was not an accuser, not an eyewitness, and under the law, he is simply unable to prosecute her, so to speak.

And yet there is something more here: Jesus doesn’t accept any apology from the woman – she doesn’t offer one!
He doesn’t tell her she isn’t responsible – he tells her to sin no more from now on.

He does say “Neither do I condemn you.”
And what does that mean? It means that Jesus issues divine forgiveness.

How can he do this? Does this fly in the face of all of the law we’ve just heard about?

In a way, we are all like the woman in today’s gospel – caught up in our own sinfulness. And we are all hoping for forgiveness.

As our Lenten journey continues, we will come to hear that Jesus pays the penalty for her sins – and for ours. We will hear about this on Palm Sunday and on Good Friday.
Look at the tree of life: Jesus Himself becomes a curse for us!

And for us – we need to hear the “right little thing” that Jesus says to the accusers.
We need to hear the “right little thing” that Jesus says as he hangs between life and death on the cross. On Good Friday, that “right little thing” is Jesus’’ last sentence: “It is finished.”

The price is paid.

My friends, he calls all of us to respond in the right little way. Accept His invitation.

Blessed Are the Married

Blessed are the married...
6th Sunday in Ordinary Time, Year C (World Marriage Day)
[Jer 17:5-8. Ps 1:1-2, 3, 4 and 6. 1 Cor 15:12, 16-20. Lk 6:17, 20-26]

Today we celebrate World Marriage Day. As I read these readings over and over, I was thinking to myself, What do these readings say about marriage?  Where would I get my theme?  Hmmm...

Take the first reading: “Cursed is the one who trusts in human beings,
who seeks his strength in flesh, whose heart turns away from the LORD."  (I'm thinkin, no, not a good marriage theme.)

And the Responsorial Psalm: “Blessed the man who follows not the counsel of the wicked." (And let's not go there for marriage, either!) 
Wow!

I heard a story about a deacon who told a very nervous bride at her wedding rehearsal that she needed to keep only three things in mind: He said, "Remember three things tomorrow at your wedding: 
First, remember the aisle, because that is what is going to bring you into the Church and into the sanctuary. Concentrate on that aisle.  

“Second, remenmber the altar, because when the time comes for you to exchange your promises, you will be standing before the altar. So just concentrate on that altar.

"Third, when you make those promises, remember that you are making them to your man only, so lock eyes with your man. Just concentrate on him.  That’s all you have to do.”

Well, on the day of the wedding, the bride was even more nervous. She was five shades of pale - but that was nothing compared to the groom—he saw the bride walking toward him – her eyes were locked fast on him, and as she walked in he could have sworn he heard her singing softly as she took his arm,
“I’ll alter him!”

(Now, I gotta tell you that that joke was really a lot funnier at home, so tell it to yourself at home and you'l really laugh!) 
I’m sure we can all think of some jokes about marriage there! But let’s not laugh too quickly!
In marriage we have to consider not how one will alter another, but in a very real sense how the sacrament of marriage will transform both of them.

Marriage is no laughing matter.
But it is a matter of great joy.

Marriage has been called the “primordial sacrament,” and it goes right back to the first “not good” of creation: God looks around and says “It is not good for the man to be alone. I will make a suitable partner for him.”

When the man and woman see each other, they exchange that “look of recognition” and they see that they were literally made for each other!

That’s why a man or a woman can say, “Honey, I haven’t seen every girl (or guy) in the world, but I can stop right here with you, because God has shown me that you—in your unique and unrepeatable self—are for me—out of all the people in the world!”

That look – that intimate exchange—why, that’s part of recognizing that the couple is not alone – it is a recognition of God in the mix:
God entwining their two lives.

They see in each other the one person that are called to serve—the one person that they are called to be Christ to!

And so we know what comes next, we can probably all repeat it from memory:

"That is why a man leaves his father and mother and clings to his wife, and the two of them become one body."  One flesh.

Marriage is a concrete sign of that divine promise of God’s love and his call to unity, just as Jesus says in John's Gospel, “that they may be one, as we, Father, are one, And “that they may be brought to perfection as one” (Jn 17:23).

This is written in our bodies.

And, hey, if it were that easy, marriage would be a walk in the park, as easy as pie.

But no, it is certainly not so easy.

A sacramental marriage is more than a legal contract.
It is a covenant, and covenant establishes eternal bonds of sacred kinship and unconditional exchange.

When a man and a woman stand together at God's altar, they promise each other:

For better or worse, for richer or poorer, in sickness and health;
to be each other's all the days of their lives.

These promises say: “I am yours and you are mine. And we are both in God!”

Yes: freely, totally, faithfully, and fruitfully.

And if you are called to be Christ to each other, you are called to be completely poured out for each other… To die to self so that you will be brought to new and abundant life together!

You are called to a transformation!

And as we honor the good and lasting marriages, we have to at least consider that marriage is being undermined these days:
 According to statistics half of all marriages will end in divorce, and an even higher percentage of second marriages will end in divorce.
Attacks on the sanctity of marriage and the traditional definition of a one-man and one-woman partnership are commonplace.
The traditional notions of family are being undermined.

Society places tremendous burdens on married life and family, and there are pressures that strain at the very foundation of the promises that bind two people together.

And what is the world’s message?
     Get what you can get while you can get it!
     Me first, all others out of the way!

But with love comes responsibility.

People owe it to themselves and to each other to know that love calls us all out of our sense of self and into the good of the other.

Love calls us in an extreme and in a radical sense to lay down our very lives for the good of our partners.

Love has responsibility!

Love – true lovealways wills the good of the other. As Paul writes, love bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things. And true love: true love? Why, it never fails!

In today’s gospel of the Beatitides, Jesus comes down and stands on level ground. He knows that he has to meet us where we are – on the ground. He bends down to bless us in our poverty.

“Blessed are the poor,” he says.

Jesus knows that we all have the potential within each of us for great good. He also knows that we can make decisions that lead us toward devastating and irreparable consequences.

We are weak and imperfect people.

We have to let God into our lives. We have to let Him walk with us—especially in the bond of marriages. We need Him to show us His example.

That, I think, is the secret to the success of marriage. I have seen it lived out in the beautiful lives of what the world might call “ordinary people” doing the ordinary stuff of everyday lives.

In the Gospel, Jesus’ first words, “blessed are you” also mean “how happy are you.” The Greek word that the gospel writer uses is makarios – it means “divine joy” the highest joy.

It is the happiness that God intends for us.

It is a joy that is rooted in Christ – as marriage is rooted in Christ.

And that is no joke!

And so, dear friends, maybe the Lord wouldn’t mind if we add another beatitude to His just for today:

How blessed are you who are married! For your very lives wear the sign of His love.

The Voice Is for Us


The Voice Is For Us
The Baptism of the Lord - Year C
[Is 42:1-4, 6-7 or Is 40:1-5, 9-11. Ps 29:1-2, 3-4, 3, 9-10. Acts 10:34-38 or
Ti 2:11-14; 3:4-7. Lk 3:15-16, 21-22 .]

Today we celebrate the Baptism of Jesus.
It is a powerful, and joyful, and even a transformative event!
This is Jesus’ “anointing” with the Holy Spirit and power. Empowerment for ministry.
It is, in fact, like last week, another “Epiphany” in itself!

From ancient times the baptism of Jesus was
the original theme of the Epiphany.

So, what does this word “Epiphany” mean? Quite simply, it is a Greek word meaning “a sudden appearance.”

Last week, we heard about the Magi who journeyed and who found the newborn King of the Jews. To them, who sought and searched, that was a “sudden appearance”: it was a fundamental recognition right there at the crib that the babe that they gazed on in the manger was indeed the Holy One, the Son of God!

This week, we listen in as a 30-year-old mature Jesus presents himself to be baptized in John’s baptism for the forgiveness of sins.

And what about this Baptism of John’s?
This is really important, because it tells us volumes.

There were ritual washings according to Jewish law for centuries, for many things: to purify a woman after she gave birth, to purify a man after he handled certain unclean things. These washings were to make clean again.

Never before in history were Jews—other than converts to Judaism—submitting to be baptized for the forgiveness of sins.
Why? They were the people of the promise!
Children of Abraham!
They were bound in a covenant with God!
So they didn’t really need this, they thought.

They had a kind of “corporate” idea of what sin was, an idea of sin as a nation.
But now, at this time of Jesus, the Jews as never before were becoming aware that they as individuals needed forgiveness for their individual faults.

They needed to “get right” with God on a one-to-one basis.
They needed to “Repent” —to turn again – to change their way of thinking,
their way of seeing,
of knowing,
of grasping reality!
That resonates now, as Jesus comes on the scene.

But just a quick aside: I love that Scripture verse about that from the letter to the
born of a woman, born under the law,
to ransom those under the law, so that we might receive
adoption.
As proof that you are children,* God sent the spirit of
his Son into our hearts, crying out, "Abba, Father!"
So you are no longer a slave but a child, and if a child
then also an heir, through God."

That’s exactly what is going on here. The fullness of time has come!
That new consciousness is in the air, and Jesus at 30 years of age—the age when Rabbis are thought to be fully mature in faith to be teachers—Jesus appears on the scene and presents himself for Baptism. Epiphany!

The Jews have longed for this for ages. Nearly 800 years before Jesus’ baptism, Isaiah prays:

“Oh, that you would rend the heavens and come down” (Is 63:19b).
That is exactly what God does here!
The heavens are rent! Torn open – and God comes down!

Here is the Holy Trinity: The voice of the Father,
The Son now standing in the waters of the Jordan,
The Spirit in the form of a Dove.

The Trinity suddenly manifests itself in history. Epiphany!
To proclaim Jesus’ identity and His mission!

Some scholars say that the voice of God here was
What the Jews call the bat qôl,
That is, the “daughter of a voice”—the whisper, the very echo of God to Jesus.

And yet, we, too, who hear this Gospel hear it this very day for all of us, for all time—because Luke reports it to us!
Yes – we, too, hear it!
And the voice is for you and me – the voice of God is for us!

That voice calls out to us over the centuries through the Gospel,
because we need to see who he is
We need to follow Jesus.

And so, the sinless one submits to the washing for sinners.
Jesus submits for us!
Jesus is baptized—the Greater by the lesser—the Creator by the creature. God submits to the ministry of a man! For us!
Because as always – Jesus leads!
Always, He turns to us and says, follow me…follow me!

And so we follow Jesus right through the waters of our baptism—which is not John’s baptism, which was only for the forgiveness of sins..

We follow Jesus through that Baptism that John the Baptist talked about: the Baptism with the Holy Spirit and fire!

When we go down into the waters of baptism, even symbolically by having water poured over our heads at the font,
We go down into death and we come up to walk in the newness of the promise of eternal life as new creatures!

We receive that indelible mark - that ontological change - and we become beloved sons and daughters of God—strengthened by a share in the Holy Spirit.

Baptism empowers us to use these spiritual gifts according to our own state in life as members of the Body of Christ;
to live out that call to live as a holy and priestly people.

What would you have done if you were there at that baptism – the baptism of Jesus?
Would you have heard God’s voice?

Think about that!
Throughout Scripture, God’s voice has often been mistaken for thunder or for the wind.

Listen to this from another place: from John’s Gospel as Jesus prays to the Father:
Jesus says:
"Father, glorify your name." Then a voice came from
heaven, "I have glorified it and will glorify it again."
The crowd there heard it and said it was thunder…" (Jn 12:28-30)

Now, imagine yourselves there on Jordan’s bank, when all this happens. Go there in your mind, and try to picture what it must have been like.
A man, who appears to be like any other man, comes
and whispers a few words to John the Baptist,
and John baptizes him.
When he comes up out of the water, what do you see and hear?
The Spirit, in the form of a dove?
God’s voice, saying:
“This is my beloved Son, with whom I am well pleased.”?

....Or is it only thunder?
Or maybe, it was the sound of the wind through the low trees and the rushes along the banks of the river?

Any maybe that bird flying by – maybe it was just a coincidence?

Well, that manifestation, and our failure to think about it, and our failure to act on it…
Is part of our hardness of heart.

God doesn’t call to us only at our Baptism –
He calls to each and every one of us
because of our Baptism!
He calls over and over again to us!

He calls through the Scriptures at the Table of the word.
He calls to us when we receive His sacred body and blood from the Table of the Sacrifice.

He calls to us in the day, and in the silence of the night.
He calls to us especially when we reach, and we yearn, and we moan, and we struggle… and when we ache for Him.
He calls to us.

That voice is for us—for our sakes!

An Epiphany—a sudden appearance—is not an Epiphany unless there is someone around to experience it!

So the question of the day is: Are we up to it?
Are we up to answering that call?
Are we up to hearing – to being quiet enough within ourselves to hear God’s voice?
What does God whisper in your ear today?

Does He bring you joy, and strength? Encouragement and empowerment?

God is present here today among us.
Or is it -- only just the thunder, only just the wind?

God also said to Isaiah, that same prophet we spoke about earlier:
“I said: Here I am! To a nation that did not call upon my name."

And now, today, God Himself says:
"Behold ,my beloved son!"

We need to call upon the name of the Beloved Son!
We need to hear and answer!
We need to look for Him, to see Him in the faces of each other, in the stranger, the oppressed, the least of our brothers and sisters.

The anointing –that Baptism of the Lord – is for us!

He knew who he was!
The Spirit of the Lord is now upon Him.
The voice is for us, and it speaks Truth, because Jesus is Truth incarnate!

Epiphany! God NOW is suddenly among us!
Not for His sake!
For our sakes!

My dear friends: Don’t let the world, don’t let anyone,
tell you that it was only thunder!

What Shall We Do?


What Shall We Do?
Third Sunday of Advent, Year C
Zep 3:14-18a . Is 12:2-3, 4, 5-6. Phil 4:4-7. Lk 3:10-18.

Joy! It permeates the readings of this day!
It permeates even the colors of our vestments and the color of this Sunday’s advent candle.

Like the soft dew in the morning, like the first rays of the sun, this joy, this hope, this feeling that the Lord is coming…

This joy gives light to the penitential season of Advent – this time of waiting, of longing.

Today is Gaudete Sunday, the Sunday of joy! When you take the penitential purple of Advent and lighten it, if you will, you get the color of rose: joy lightens, yes, even our vestments—and shows us as a people of hope!

That term “Gaudate,” means “rejoice”—be joyful over and over again. We hear it in today’s second reading: “Rejoice in the Lord always; I say it again I say, rejoice! The Lord is near.”

How beautiful is that!

The Lord is near! The kingdom of heaven is at hand!

And did you hear in the first reading that there are four commands to rejoice? One right after another:
Shout for joy
Sing joyfully
Be glad
Exult with all your heart.

Whenever the Scriptures talk about the coming of the messiah, as these readings do, joy abounds and overflows.

Joy is a different thing than happiness, you know?
Joy is a fruit of the Holy Spirit – it is a God-given grace.

This is so different than the concept of “happiness.”
Happiness comes with ownership or possession. And when you’ve closed around that possession, you have finished – you have met the goal.
You are content! You contain what it is that you own.

But joy, well... joy has a sense of longing – it is the fruit of a relationship.
Where happiness is kind of a state of being – joy has a kind of longing –
It is the pilgrim’s condition – and with this longing is a sense of pure delight, because we delight in the Lord – a person, not a thing to possess.

And in the midst of all this talk about joy, we have John the Baptist again.

We heard about him in last week’s Gospel.
Half of that Gospel was given over to the who’s, the what’s, the where’s and when’s – we were identifying John to put John on this day, in this year, in this reign of the king – and to identify him as: The Son of Zechariah.

Talk about joy – John was the infant who leapt for joy in his mother’s womb, when he heard the sound of Mary – the Blessed Mother’s voice.

John – for all of his tragic end, was and is a kind of patron saint for joy!

This week, we know who he is, and he is answering questions.
You see, in the few verses that we missed between last week and this,
John has told this crowd that they must produce good fruits
as a sign of their repentance.

Now we have groups within the crowd, all asking John,
“what shall we do?”
John has an answer, and in a nutshell, in three words, it is this: act with justice.

That rings down through the centuries, not only for the people in that crowd,
But for the people in this crowd today – sitting here around the table of the word and the table of the eucharist: act with justice!

That’s what we’re sent out to do from these readings –
It’s what we’re sent out to do as as we receive in Holy Communion
The king of love,
The king of charity,
The king of justice,
The king of peace.

We need to do more than hear words and receive communion. Our very presence here charges all of us: act with justice.

And as Christians , we have to do this for all people. We have to love our enemies.

Look at these tax collectors—they were considered to be public sinners! Jewish tax collectors were collecting for Rome.
They were extorting their own people to get a profit.

But John doesn’t tell them to stop being tax collectors.
He tells them: stop charging more than is proper. Act with justice.

And he doesn’t tell the soldiers – who well might have been Roman soldiers in the crowd – he doesn’t tell them “Put down your lances.”
No, he says, “Don’t abuse your power.”
He tells them: Act with justice.

That simple message—in the everyday stuff of where they already are:
act with justice.
Do the right thing, not the powerful thing.

All this – and now another joy.
John in today’s gospel doesn’t announce the birth of Jesus. John comes to announce the ministerial presence of Jesus.

“Great in your midst is the Holy One of Israel.”

The crowd back with John awaited the coming of a messiah.
The Gospel tells us they were “filled with expectation, and all were asking in their hearts whether John might be the Christ.”

The hope of the ages had been made manifest in John. Some 450 years had gone by with no prophetic voice to the Jews.
They waited and they watched, and they longed for the coming of the Messiah.
They longed for this joy!

And now, after this period of silence, John the Baptist appears on the scene: John breaks God’s silence!
His simple message is the prophet’s message: act with justice.
It is Isaiah’s message. Jeremiah’s message, Amos’ message,

The hope of the ages is now manifest in John.
And because of this, John knows that he has to be careful in pointing out the right way.
John points to the “mightier one who is coming … who will baptize with the Holy Spirit and fire.”

John points us to Jesus, too, by his message.

And we who wait in the darkening skies of late fall,
we who live in times of things expected yet unfulfilled,
we who sense time going by… time slipping by…

We are told on this day, in this time to rejoice!

God is near. His kingdom is at hand – a matter of :
Already—but not just yet in its fullness.
A matter of breaking through in the kindness, in the justice, in the love that we show to each other in the ordinary stuff of our ordinary lives.

We need this reminder to rejoice. We need this reminder of the messiah among us who is Great in our midst.

We need to remember in this time also to have joy.

Today we rejoice because God calls out to us through John the Baptist. He speaks to us of our poverty, and in our darkness,
and he tells us how we can gain great riches.

We can act with justice. We can extend charity. We can love.

We can help break forth the dawn of the light of hope—that peace of God, that the second reading tells us “surpasses all understanding.”

That’s real joy!

The Lord is close at hand, my friends!
Joy in justice, love, and peace, is truly at hand for you and for me.

Gaudete! Great in our midst is the Holy One of Israel!